I began to look at all the memorable moments of my life. I started thinking about all of my relationships and how I always made everyone else a priority. If I wasn’t going to put myself first why would anyone else. I began to think about my life now while I am not in a relationship and why I felt the need to search for someone else to focus on. I looked inside and found that I am truly happy as I am right now and I don’t “need” someone else in my life to be happy.. I am happy. Sharing a life with someone else who is happy would be great but not something that I “NEED”. THIS is a memorable moment!
We have all done this … during the bad moments life gives us, we often find ourselves wishing those days away. The thing about wishing your life away is that we have no idea when life will end for ourselves or for those we love. By wishing our lives away, just because we are going through a bad time… we are essentially throwing away days that when you look back will have been a gift left unopened. We must live each day as if it were our last, appreciate all the moments of our lives and not wish them away.
Do you find yourself feeling stuck? Does the journey you are on feel like a chain event of hard lessons that just don’t seem to end? If so, you need to take some time to review your path, look back at the journey you have been traveling.. what lesson is it that has escaped your understanding. Have patience with yourself and the journey itself. It takes time and growth to change your path, you have to allow yourself that time and allow the journey to even out once you’ve figured out the lessons.
Life comes at us and we fight it. When we refuse to make needed changes in our lives, Spirit throws us into a storm that will tear down our world so that we have a chance to rebuild it the way it should be. Reflect back and look at the storms you have already survived. I am sure you will find certain things to be thankful for that in that moment you may not have thought you wanted or needed… but upon reflection you can be thankful for. Storms are meant to change us, the stronger more devastating they are the more we need changing. Think about where you would be without the storms… I’m sure now you are seeing their benefit.